On March 2, 1991 our family's lives were changed gloriously for the better as Rylan Brent Simmons joined our family in mortality- Now our family's lives have been dramatically changed again because of this young man- but this time because of his unexpected and sudden departure from mortality and this earthly existence as Rylan passed away in his sleep, and returned home to his heavenly parents yesterday, April 15, 2014!
We had no idea that our sweet mortal days blessed by his twinkly eyes and bright smile and unconditional support and love for each one of us would come to an end so abruptly. As we hope you can only imagine, there really are not words that we know of at this time, to express the aching, longing, and intense pain that has immediately become a part of our minutes and hours- we truly are almost paralyzed by this newest intense challenge---There really are no words, celestial enough, as well, that we know that can accurately describe the extraordinary level of gratitude that we feel for the privilege, and great honor it has been to have this valiant, committed, bright, genuinely loving, compassionate, even perfect son, brother and great friend by our side for the past 23 years!
We know if you are reading this you have most likely spent time and have known Rylan at some level for a time, and have personally experienced the unbelievable joy that he instantaneously brought into each new day, experience and relationship without ever saying one word. His example of how powerful one worthy spirit can express love, compassion, understanding, friendship, positive uplift, patience, desires, encouragement, support and the ultimate and powerful love our our Savior, Jesus Christ!!...No words needed...not one! Oh, We love him, We love him, We love him-We miss him!
We are clinging to the absolute truth that our family is united eternally through sacred ordinances and covenants that we made in the temple and the invaluable sustaining power and security we are receiving from the fact that our entire family will once again be reunited and and at that time we wills sit at the feet of the extraordinary valiant young man with great gratitude for his willingness to spend his earth life in our care but mostly for patiently showing us the way and leading our family safely back home to live in glory as unknown- but for now sweet son we so deeply and intensely miss you!
WE WILL NEVER FORGET!!!!
My heart aches for your family as you deal with the loss of such a wonderful young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
ReplyDeleteI, too, count it a privilege and a blessing to have met and known Rylan. Everything you have written here is true. I can't imagine the pain and loss you feel at losing him, but how comforting to know where he is and Who he is with!
ReplyDeleteThe next time we see him I'm sure he'll be able to talk and speak, but nothing he could possibly say could communicate any better the love and sweetness he has already expressed to us.
What a gift was Rylan to us all!
Dear family, I have no words of comfort - I'm absolutely stunned - just know my heart is breaking with you, my prayers continue to be for all of you, and that you are loved and missed deeply.
ReplyDeleteRylan was the happiest person I have ever known. Lothar remembered how much joy he had from a simple swim in our pool. I remember the Halloween hay ride and talking to him and how he just smiled at me and laughed. We know how much he meant to you, and we are so very sincerely sorry for your loss. We know our partings are temporary and we shall be reunited in a blink of an eye. Rylan will now watch over you, as you so lovingly watched over him.
ReplyDeleteOne of my favorite memories was coming to Rylan's birthday party - I think it was his 1st birthday party and we played with bubbles - do you remember that? I remember thinking, like I have so many times over the years, how Stephanie and Ronald were so discerning about what brought Rylan joy and seeking to make his life as full and full of joy as you could. I have been amazed and touched at the level of dedication and laughter and joy that came from having this wonderful young man in your home. I loved that you ALWAYS made Rylan a part of everything you did and experienced. Ronald, I have never seen a dad show such complete and total dedication to a child's physical care. Rylan has certainly celestialized your family and your influence has, in turn, lifted so many people. Thank heavens for Rylan...
ReplyDeleteTo a family we LOVE beyond words.....We just heard of Rylan's passing, and our hearts are aching. Oh how we will always love that "little boy". Some of our dearest memories include the Simmons family, and feel so blessed we crossed paths so many years ago. Your family will always be an example in so many ways for us. We will always remember the blessing Rylan was to your family (and continues to be), as well as everyone he came in contact with. Thank you for letting us be part of his/your life. We love you beyond words, and will pray for your family. Please also let Ron know we are thinking of him as well. Huge hugs are connected to this e-mail, and continued prayers. We will be in contact with you soon, but please know we send our LOVE. All our love, The Wilde family
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